Near the end of their rope, women seek assistance from Glen Ellyn charity

Chana Bernstein, middle, helps people in need to pay their rent through the Glen Ellyn charity, Saret Charitable Fund. She is helping Kathleen Goscinski, right and Tammy Rush after both have been through cancer treatments and are unable to make rent payments. John Starks/ [email protected]

Posted January 20, 2024 5:31 pm

Dave Oberhelman

 

 

 

Despite diminished coffers since COVID, Saret Charitable Fund doggedly helps women and families in need

Kathleen Goscinski was diagnosed in 2017 with fibromyalgia and in 2018 with bone and brain cancer.

Her doctors declared Goscinski unable to work — she’d collapse and drop things — and advised her to apply for disability assistance.

But Goscinski was denied relief, she said.

“It’s to the point where I’m in a real hard situation,” said Goscinski, who is working with a lawyer to appeal the Social Security Administration’s decision.

Kathleen Goscinski, left, and Tammy Rush have been through cancer treatments and are unable to pay rent. Both are receiving help through The Saret Charitable Fund. John Starks/[email protected]

On top of Goscinski’s monthly rent of $1,000 for her Carol Stream apartment, plus late fees, Goscinski owes payments for her phone, car insurance and utilities. Without work, it’s a situation that threatens to further spiral.

Tammy Rush of Addison is getting help with her rent payments through The Saret Charitable Fund, a Glen Ellyn charity. John Starks/[email protected]

Tammy Rush of Addison is in a little better position, in a manner of speaking.

Currently in remission following surgery and chemotherapy treatments for Stage 3 ovarian cancer, the former Pace bus driver has been cleared to return to work in February.

Historically prompt in her payments until her health concerns intervened, she owes $4,000 in back rent and counting.

Working behind the scenes, chipping away at their debt and living expenses, Chana Bernstein is somewhat at a loss.

She’s the founder of the Saret Charitable Fund in Glen Ellyn, which helps people achieve food and housing security.

“We always relied on people and friends to support us and were able to do quite a lot. But since COVID, it’s been downhill,” said Bernstein, who was 33 when she incorporated the 501(c)(3) charity that covers DuPage, Kane and Will counties in 1985.

Bernstein’s impetus to start Saret was supporting single mothers with no job training or income, following the death of a Wheaton toddler from a poor family with no safety net. The charity expanded its mission to funding people with disabilities in 2005.

“We really need to get supporters to help us build this fund,” Bernstein said.

Saret helps about 20 people and families a month, on average, and provides funds depending on the severity of their situations. The group’s story, as well as information on how to support its mission, is available at saret.org.

Saret is seeking funds to help Goscinski, Rush, and many others cover rent, utilities, groceries, and auto insurance.

“I’m hoping they’re going to be able to help me, and I would like to see that other lady helped. I can’t imagine what she’s going through,” Rush said of Goscinski.

Bernstein helps when she’s able, sometimes turning yesterday’s donated checks into today’s cash assistance for desperate people.

She said Saret donated $300 to Goscinski in December, provided $100 to each woman for the holidays, and paid for gas for their cars and phone bills.

Rush said she is fortunate to have a sympathetic landlord.

“My landlord has been working with me because he understands my cancer situation. But he's worried that there’s no help out there for me,” said Rush, who also has bouts of neuropathy in her hands and feet as a result of the chemotherapy.

In addition to the help from Saret, Rush got groceries from the People’s Resource Center in Wheaton. With her cancer in remission and her ability to return to work soon, she is optimistic. But that growing debt will be hard to overcome.

Saret paid between $5,000 and $6,000 in hotel fees for other families over the past year, Bernstein said, including a mother with twin children.

“I had to literally call every friend to help me and donate to us just for that motel situation because it was winter and we didn't want anyone dying,” Bernstein said.

Bernstein fields requests all the time, unannounced and urgent. While attempting to help Goscinski and Rush, she added Elmhurst’s Kirsten Schütz to Saret’s disability fund.

A double amputee, Schütz had a brokerage business and was the sole caregiver to her father, a blind Army veteran, until he died in June 2022.

Because of Schütz’s severe, lingering problems due to the osteomyelitis that took her lower legs, she was hospitalized for 72 days from last June to December for a variety of issues, Bernstein said.

Though she has assistance from Medicaid and the SNAP food assistance program, Schütz owed thousands of dollars on her home loan and other bills.

Bernstein, known to dip into her own pocket to help people, is hoping to gain additional funding for Saret through a grant writer she has contracted.

“We want our charity to be able to reach out to the public and educate them on the problems that we are trying to solve that are not being solved by other entities,” Bernstein said. “Now, we are going for grants. We always relied on people.”

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Special Thanks to the Daily Herald article that led to other helpful connections:  

The SARET Charitable Fund Charity continues to benefit from its ongoing outreach activities to increase the number of those who wish to support SARET’s mission. In January a Daily Herald article about three women with significant health issues who have reached out to SARET for assistance has generated a lot of  attention. As a result, there has been an outpouring of financial and other support from so many donors.  

 

The 100 Women + Who Care Organization has awarded SARET with a generous $10,000+ donation! Once that goal was met by the organization, an additional $5,000. was donated

by the Richard M Schulze Family Foundation. Those donations were so very helpful for SARET to provide money for rent, food and other expenses for so many needy clients

 

Additionally, because of that article in the Daily Herald,  a representative from the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition reached out to SARET so that one of our clients with cancer could receive free healthy and prepared meals delivered to her home and that of her caregiver. That client will also be eligible to apply for a 1-time financial assistance award. She has also been nominated by the Midwest Senior Regional Manager of NOCC to be the recipient of proceeds from their fundraiser at Cantigny that was held on October 5, 2024. The NOCC organization graciously offered SARET a booth at their Together in Teal Walk for Ovarian Cancer fundraiser at Cantigny.

Letter of Gratitude

 

Saret Charitable Fund changed the lives of my son and myself forever. Unless you have been homeless, it's difficult to understand the depression and despair that arises. I found myself homeless and living in a motel with my adult son. Thank God for him because there was no car and I had mobility challenges. My car being totaled in an accident cost my job - the bulk of the income - thus Homelessness.

My son carried the $1400 monthly rate alone - which varied at their whim. There was no way to save up for the first month and security deposit for an apartment. I will never forget that he lost that position right before Thanksgiving. We'd seen the motel put people out of their rooms with all their things for non-payment. We knew our turn was next. DuPage County and other agencies could not help us and we were doomed to be out in the cold.

We found the number to Saret as an answer to a prayer. Chana Bernstein saw our need and our potential for growth. She assisted us with food, paid our motel bill temporarily and then helped my son and myself find employment. The BIG DIFFERENCE between working with Chana Bernstein and the Saret Charitable Fund is the personalized care I felt. There is such stigma and shame around being homeless or needing assistance. Chana's kind and generous Spirit always put me at ease. She assisted us out of that state of despair and showed us that there are people who TRULY CARE about service to others. When my son and I thought there was no hope, Saret literally set us on our path to stability and independence. I will ALWAYS be grateful for the Saret Charitable Fund which truly gave my son and I a helping hand in a time of great need.

Stacy M.

Letter of Gratitude

 

Hello,

My name is Carla, and I would like to introduce myself and my family's journey to you.

Becoming homeless in the year 2008 we were introduced to Chana and Saret Charitable foundation.

Chana quickly sprang into action to help our family.

We had two small children, a boy and a girl, my husband and I.

Our son was sick with a rare blood disorder. The doctor’s bills mounted, and minimum wage was not a living wage.

Chana and Saret helped us with renting a hotel room for several months of food, gas and so much more.

She then found an Angel family that assisted us with car repairs, food, gas, and additional things we needed.

Our Angel family purchased us a laptop to use in the hotel where we were able to complete job applications and build the skills needed to land a job which would turn into a career in the field of technology.

With these valuable skills we were able to acquire positions with a major technical university and our own apartment in less than one year.

Our journey has had some major ups and downs from continuous growth in our field to working for a major airline to being furloughed and rehired several times and then furloughed again during Covid-19.

During Covid-19 and isolation we lost our beautiful daughter Cassidy to suicide at the age of 14. We love and miss her so very much.

The anxiety and grief are unimaginable, but we keep going for her!

We never lost our connection in our hearts with Chana or our Angel family.

It is now approaching the two-year anniversary of our beautiful daughter Cassidy and I was able to reconnect with her doctor who had been our children's doctor most of their lives.

In honor of Cassidy, he would like to make a donation to Saret.

I thought the death of my daughter would make me a bitter and angry person but it just made me love people more.

We are so happy to have reconnected with Chana and Saret.

I would love to utilize my skills and abilities in any way I can to make a positive impact on others the way our family has been impacted by the love and care of Chana, Saret and others.

I would ask you to distribute this letter to other board members for consideration as well.

It would make Cassidy smile

Pay It Forward Always 💚

Carla H.

Letter of Gratitude

 

A thank you to Saret doesn't seem to be enough for all the help you have given me and my husband with rent assistance.

I am a care giver for my husband who has an acute case of Multiple Sclerosis. He is not able to do anything on his own, I mean absolutely nothing on his own. Leaving him alone during the day or night is not an option. He is a 59 year old man who laughs, thinks, and feels but in a body that won't work at all.

After losing my job, working to take care of my husband, I have absolutely no money coming in but my husband’s SSD check. This check will not pay our rent let alone any utilities and daily living expenses. Even getting him to his doctors’ appointments is difficult with the lack of money and lack of transportation.

Without rent assistance from Saret, I would not have been able to save up over the last few months to purchase specialized shoes which are essential for me to walk and take care of my husband’s needs.

I am not exaggerating by saying Saret has saved us from homelessness. I really can't express how grateful I am for your generous giving. It’s really puts a tear in my eye knowing there are such kind wonderful people who can help and do so.

Yes, we are one of those people who can't utilize many of the government programs. Believe me when I say we have tried.

If we didn't have Saret’s help, I really don't know how we would get through these rough times.  My tears now are from gratefulness not from despair. Thank you.

R.

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Our organization was started in 1985 in Glen Ellyn, IL in response to witnessing a growing number of single mothers without job training or income, minimal state aid programs, and the influx of refugees from war-torn countries. We serve 400-500 families a year.

SARET Charitable Fund in Glen Ellyn provides emergency housing and emergency financial assistance.

Our Barbara Brent disability fund is growing and needs more financial support for rents and utilities, for clients faced with medical crisis such as cancer and injuries.

Providing Assistance To Those In Need

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If you or someone you know needs our assistance, please click on the link below, download, print, and fill out the SARET Intake Form. Return it either by mail or email to [email protected]

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Reach Out

Work with members in your community and make a difference

  • Join "Adopt a Family" where your monthly pledge/contribution supports one family in particular, over a designated period required to help a them recuperate from a medical or employment loss crisis.
  • Check our website periodically for events and fundraisers.
  • Order the CD, "Songs from the Heart" for a contribution of $10.00.
  • Adopt a family each holiday season for either Thanksgiving and/or Christmas and help with food or gifts.
  • Donate your old vehicle.
  • Don't ever let apathy take over your life. He who saves a life, saves the whole world.
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